Wednesday, June 23, 2010

How do I tell a beautiful girl she needs less make-up?

I know this East Indian (Gujarati) woman in my botany lab who wears a lot of makeup and looks really good, but would look even so much better if she just took it all off.


It's so obvious that she is gorgeous underneath it. You can tell her skin isn't perfect underneath it, but it's not bad at all, and would actually look better without anything over it. Especially in the long term. Her eyes are HUGE, dark, and deep, and her eyelashes are already like 2 inches long. Her lips are deliciously dark like a plum and the only thing she should even THINK of wearing is lip balm.





As a man, I would think that telling a girl she is so naturally gorgeous that she doesn't need any make-up at all would be a compliment: ';God made you beautiful so you wouldn't have to!';





I think most women would take this badly, like ';you do your makeup badly and look ugly'; kinda thing.





Is there a nice way to tell a woman something that is essentially nice, but sounds bad?How do I tell a beautiful girl she needs less make-up?
I don't think it is your place to tell her that unless you are at least her boyfriend. There really isn't a way you can breach this sunject if you are a mere observer.


Perhaps one day that she happens to wear less make up, compliment her on her eyes. Women pick up on these things.How do I tell a beautiful girl she needs less make-up?
just say like u are so beutiful but do u not like your face because ur hiding it under all that make up. you are so buetiful you dont need anything to accent your face. a little eye make up and lip gloss will still make u look stunning. y do u feel u need to hide something so gorgeos. i just wanna see u tommorw. for one day to no have make up or as much. see how many complients you get
Just drop into the conversation that you like a woman with a natural look, or mention that someone you both know has a good hand with makeup, because she looks like she's not wearing any.
sorry but you dont you mind your own buisness . she cant tell you how to look either
if you ever see her apply her lip gloss ask her why she wears it. then tell her she is so beautiful she could go with out it. maybe she'll get the hint!!!
How close are you, can you comment on her clothes and its not awkward? Are you on a hang out basis with her? if you are then invite her to something that doesn't normally require makeup, like a hiking trip, or swimming and once you see her without make up subtlety throw in how much more beautiful she looks with out it.
I think you just said it telling her that god made her naturally beautiful is a great compliment.I am a girl and would not be offended if someone told me i was too beautiful for makeup, and basically( naturally beautiful).I would be so flattered.
From a Ladie myself i would just say (name) your really pretty and i think you should wear less make up and youd look even prettier.
alot of times women wear make-up to mask their insecurities.maybe she was told repeatedly by her mom, sister(s), aunts, grandma, etc. that a man would not want her if she was herself or did not paint her face. tell her that you like her just the way she is and keep reaffirming how beautiful she is, thats what my fiancee did and now i hardly wear make-up !
I would like to think you can send the message with little or no offence. I don't have a specific layout to suggest, but I would recommend that you cover whatever you say in compliments. ex: ';I can see that you're one of those women who don't need a lot to be pretty. Some women are just blessed with it, you know?';
It is your opinion and obviously she thinks differantely. But some of us women wear more make up then we need since we think thats what you MEN want or makes us look better. If your on a close relationship w/this girl and in casual conversation you could mention that she doesnt need make up and that her personality and natural radiance of beauty is everything a real man wants. hehe But no matter what you think or how convincing you are if its not what makes her feel good or how she feels about it, she will continue doing her beautification the way she wants.
One idea is to show her your question.


Secound idea is to set her down and tell her how lovely you think she is, but also stress that you think she would be just as lovely dressed down a bit. It seems that many girls wear make up as an insercuirty issue, so if you make her comfortable she might be willing to wear less.





Good luck on telling her how lovely she is.
ok, all things being equal- she has your attention and you are very aware of her skin wich is where her makeup layers start. You guys are in a science class together, wich could work to your advantage. She should use a base layer of makeup like bareminerals http://www.bareminerals.com/kits_bm4.htm鈥?/a> that stuff is AMAZING on skin (as long as you are not old n with wrinkles) perhaps you could do something co-vert like print that page up and slip it to her somehow, or have a friend of yours print out several and leaflet the entire class when you get out one day. She may get a hint. You may never have to directly say anything. She would still be wearing makup - yes, however you can't expect dramatic change from a woman especially when it is for a guy who isn't even a boyfriend. If you guys were close friends I would suggest going to a mall where they sell that stuff and talking her into a makeover... your excuse to go into the store can be to pick up something for someone as a favor because they love that stuff. (you can always return it later)


Yes it is true, we do like being told we are beautiful without makeup, but sometimes women out there never really learn how to do makeup the right way, and just dive in and keep going with what they think works. It is an art sometimes, and even basic makeup can be tricky when you are trying to bring something out, or mask something else. No matter what you do, my major advice to you is tread gently.
tell her, casually, how naturally beautiful she is. that's ALL. dont add anything else. If you guys hit it off, then you might have a little more to say, but other than the hint- DO NOTHING!
You know what? I think that you explained how you feel perfectly in your question. Given that, I would not take offense at all - in fact you might see her blush after she wipes it off!





Print that out on nice paper and give it to her as a letter. Tell the truth: ';I've wanted to tell you this, but didn't want to hurt you so I didn't know how to say it. Still, I would love for you to know how I feel...';





Then just walk away. Call later and ask her out. Betcha she's got less on!





(PS - don't print the responses!! eek)
I would agree, it's not really any of your business and she's probably not going to take it the way you intend it.


You can tell her she's pretty if/when it's appropriate. Maybe she just likes wearing makeup. I have near-perfect skin and I still like to wear makeup to smooth things out a bit.
idk
Depends on the nature of the relationship you have with this lady you mentioned.


You could try by bringing it up casually during a conversation when out for lunch with group of your other workmates (her included) i.e. a chat on women's beauty %26amp; their ideas of it, etc


Otherwise, it's best to just keep your thoughts to yourself.
Do you talk to her? You shouldn't just go and tell a woman you think she's beautiful, especially in an educational setting and you are not dating.


It's kinda disrespectful, basically it's telling her that her only purpose as a woman is to be pretty to look at.


Telling her that she should wear less makeup seems passive aggressive; a back-handed compliment.


and it crosses personally boudaries to cause a woman to blush if you are not dating.


i suggest you just keep it to yourself unless your goal is to offend her.
Dont tell her, try to see her without her makeup on(ie.sleep with her) and appreciate her made up look AND without makeup cos its very sexy if a pretty girl tries to look even prettier!
Just tell her direct to the point that she looks better without make-up. As a girl I would appreciate it.. of course it sounds bad and I would feel a bit offended in the first place, but i'll appreciate it and the person who told me.. that also shows that u care for that person..

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