Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Would you make up an event and elaborate the story for months for attention?

Would you create an event and reach out for support and when it is offered, you find a person who has experienced great trauma and is fighting for life and use their struggles and their weaknesses against them to ultimately hurt them, when their only effort was to be their for you, when they felt like you needed someone the most. Would you continue to do so when you find out things about them except you fail to realize the information you are receiving is the truth and even though you have caused doubts you use their disabilities and weaknesses against them? Would you make up an event and elaborate the story for months for attention?
Sounds like a sympathy junkie. You can only offer help, what's there, and not to your on detriment. Reasonable boundaries must be set up. In other words you will have to make it clear what kind of help or assistance you are willing to offer, never to the detriment to your own health and well being either. i.e. You aren't going to be parting money regularly just because they say they need it, how is that going to help you in the long run when they become co-dependant on you?Would you make up an event and elaborate the story for months for attention?
Whoa, who ever you're talking about is a seriously damaged human being.


I have not though.
no i would never do that but a person that would be so evil 2 do that, does not seem like a very nice person.





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